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Toy kit essentials, reappropriations and pitfalls for adult playtime Up until I reached 38 years of age, I had only ever purchased and...
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theeroticurean
Jun 21, 20234 min
"From Conception to the Grave": a conceptual kink scene
Trigger warning: this blog describes sexual experiences involving a range of taboos and non-traditional expressions of sexuality. Play...
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theeroticurean
May 10, 20237 min
Cultivating constructive conflict
We all know conflict is inevitable in any relationship. But does it always have to be so gut-wrenchingly hard? As someone that was once...
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theeroticurean
Apr 26, 20234 min
Let's talk about erection fluctuation
rather than erectile dysfunction. It must be really hard for people with penises given the expectations that are placed on them. I don’t...
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theeroticurean
Apr 13, 20236 min
10 good reasons to get kinky
Sexual norms are often dictated to us by the dominant culture of our daily lives and/or our cultural background. Yet turn ons, libidos...
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theeroticurean
Feb 2, 20234 min
Tailoring therapy to you
One of my very long-term, committed, erotic-explorer clients suggested this topic to write about. It's a useful question as there are...
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theeroticurean
Nov 8, 20224 min
How to compose an erotic adventure
Adventure dates are one of my specialties and I delight in composing them. The inventive use of space, movement, blindfolds, sensation,...
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theeroticurean
Nov 7, 20223 min
Why is a healthy sex life important?
My original title for this blog was "why is sex important?". Then I realised, it's not some generic version of sex that is important. In...
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theeroticurean
Oct 14, 20227 min
Communication is the sexiest thing
Clear communication. Yes, it's oft-cited but hands down, communication is the hottest thing in and out of the bedroom. Why? Because: you...
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theeroticurean
Sep 21, 20227 min
Keeping eroticism alive in partnerships
Sexual attraction is one of the unique factors that defines most romantic relationships from other relationships. It can be so powerful,...
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theeroticurean
Sep 5, 20226 min
Exploring anal sex
In exploring anal sex, one finds a most magical place. For some, it is a place to confront taboos, stretch and satisfy otherwise...
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theeroticurean
Aug 15, 20224 min
What does a sexologist do?
Sexology is the broad term given to people who study, educate and counsel in the field of sexuality. There are as many different ways to...
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theeroticurean
Jul 29, 20223 min
SEXUAL SHAME: what is it and how to overcome it
Sex can be extremely powerful, inspiring confidence and positivity in people's inner worlds and in relationships, which then ripples out...
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theeroticurean
Jul 20, 20214 min
Practical tips for sensual Touch between lovers
Touch is something we all do. It’s innate, part of everyday life and without it, we quite literally, die (studies on newborn babies have...
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