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Blogs of a sexologist

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Let's talk about erection fluctuation

rather than erectile dysfunction. It must be really hard for people with penises given the expectations that are placed on them. I don’t...

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Tailoring therapy to you

One of my very long-term, committed, erotic-explorer clients suggested this topic to write about. It's a useful question as there are...

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How to compose an erotic adventure

Adventure dates are one of my specialties and I delight in composing them. The inventive use of space, movement, blindfolds, sensation,...

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Why is a healthy sex life important?

My original title for this blog was "why is sex important?". Then I realised, it's not some generic version of sex that is important. In...

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Exploring anal sex

In exploring anal sex, one finds a most magical place. For some, it is a place to confront taboos, stretch and satisfy otherwise...

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What does a sexologist do?

Sexology is the broad term given to people who study, educate and counsel in the field of sexuality. There are as many different ways to...

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SEXUAL SHAME: what is it and how to overcome it

Sex can be extremely powerful, inspiring confidence and positivity in people's inner worlds and in relationships, which then ripples out...