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Blogs of a sexologist

theeroticurean

Jul 13, 20236 min

Hot Tips on Best Sex Toys

Toy kit essentials, reappropriations and pitfalls for adult playtime Up until I reached 38 years of age, I had only ever purchased and...

theeroticurean

Jun 21, 20234 min

"From Conception to the Grave": a conceptual kink scene

Trigger warning: this blog describes sexual experiences involving a range of taboos and non-traditional expressions of sexuality. Play...

theeroticurean

Apr 13, 20236 min

10 good reasons to get kinky

Sexual norms are often dictated to us by the dominant culture of our daily lives and/or our cultural background. Yet turn ons, libidos...

theeroticurean

Feb 2, 20234 min

Tailoring therapy to you

One of my very long-term, committed, erotic-explorer clients suggested this topic to write about. It's a useful question as there are...

theeroticurean

Nov 7, 20223 min

Why is a healthy sex life important?

My original title for this blog was "why is sex important?". Then I realised, it's not some generic version of sex that is important. In...

theeroticurean

Oct 14, 20227 min

Communication is the sexiest thing

Clear communication. Yes, it's oft-cited but hands down, communication is the hottest thing in and out of the bedroom. Why? Because: you...

theeroticurean

Sep 5, 20226 min

Exploring anal sex

In exploring anal sex, one finds a most magical place. For some, it is a place to confront taboos, stretch and satisfy otherwise...

theeroticurean

Aug 15, 20224 min

What does a sexologist do?

Sexology is the broad term given to people who study, educate and counsel in the field of sexuality. There are as many different ways to...